Oladipo Ademola Esq

Lets talk about sex again. I know I have discussed it before and I promised a part 2.

I said in my last post that the secret of great sex is listening, and yes, I still stand by that statement. To have and enjoy great sex, you need to listen. To your partner and to yourself. Yes, you read right. You have to listen to yourself.

No, I am not crazy. You are probably asking why you need to listen to yourself, don’t you know what you are experiencing. Yes you do. But does your partner know? Ahh, makes some sense now. You need to listen to yourself because whatever “information” you give is what your partner works with. Do no forget that to truly enjoy sex, you both have to enjoy it. You and your partner. While you make effort to ensure that your partner enjoys sex, your partner needs to reciprocate the favour and ensure that you also enjoy the sex.

You need to listen to yourself and ensure that your pass along the information that your partner needs to know to enable he/she act such that you enjoy the sex. You like something done in a way, let it be known. You don’t like the way something is done, let it be known. Whatever message you pass across is what your partner uses.

And please, not this kind of sexual feedback. Happy Sexing.

If you have any ideas on sex, comments please!

I dont have much words today, I just watched Estelle’s video featuring Sean Paul. Come Over or something like that. I tried and tried, but I just couldn’t see the song, Estelle’s breasts were in the way.

Same in No Substitute Love

Stock Photo - Couple, Sex

Before I go on, please note that this post is not a professional opinion, but it is my opinion. I intend discussing sex from my point of view. What has worked for me, which might work for you. I know I have discussed sex before, but now my eyes are open.

Sex is good. Good sex is better. I have had my experiences in the past, both good and bad. I decided to analyse my past sexperiences, comparing the good and bad, with the aim of discovering what made good sex good and bad sex bad.You wont expect me to disclose how many partners have had or who I have had sex with (but if they are reading this, you’ll know when I refer to you. The bad ones, I hope we’ll improve. The good ones, when next?)

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I have been in a lot of discussions with different folks over the issue of sex. I can say that views are highly divergent. Some folks swear by sex, some live for sex, some consider it a taboo of sorts, others fall into other categories. My view? Sex is highly over-rated.

Too many people place too much emphasis on sex. Even after 30 minutes of the most dramatic acrobatics, its over. Ever seen anyone have sex for 24 hours non stop. A friend of mine was said he would die if he did not have sex at least twice a week. Even he could not go 24 hours.

My question, whats the big deal about sex? Sex here refers to the act that occurs after penetration is made. (Sorry, no discussions about gay sex – though I think they should have some form of penetration too).

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